Dear Penny: We’re in a Deep Financial Hole. Is There Any Way Out?

Dear Penny: We’re in a Deep Financial Hole. Is There Any Way Out?




Dear L.,

You’re probably spending every waking millisecond wondering if this will be the day that the repo man shows up, the eviction notice arrives, or the power is disconnected. To say that it’s an anxiety-inducing way to live is a gross understatement.

And often when something is the source of great anxiety, it’s tempting to avoid it. You just want to get through another day, and asking for help is daunting. But you’ve got to.

A good place to start is the United Way-run 211 helpline, which is available to about 90% of the U.S. population. You dial 211, and you’ll be routed to a regional calling center that can give you information about rent and utility assistance, and guide you through the labyrinth of social services you may qualify for. They can also direct you to local food banks that could help you save money on necessities and free up some cash for bills. 

Another good thing about starting with 211 is that it’s a lot less intimidating to talk about your finances with someone you don’t owe money to — which brings me to the next thing I’m going to ask you to do.

You need to call everyone you owe and be brutally honest about your situation. Keeping your family sheltered is the No. 1 priority, so start with your landlord. 

You don’t say whether you’re employed or have other sources of income. If you do, you’ll be in a better position to negotiate a plan to get caught up. For example, you might be able to work out a plan where you pay by the week and tack on a small part of your past-due rent to your weekly payments. 

If you had a good track record of making on-time payments and are able to show that your current circumstances are the result of a one-time emergency, they’ll be even more willing to work with you. 




As for your car loan, some lenders may be willing to work out a forbearance plan, where you get a break of about a month or two on payments, but you’ll still have to make them up. They’ll consider your payment history, along with the reason for your request and how likely you are to actually get caught up.

Your utility company may have options for you as well, such as putting you on a payment plan or referring you to your local Low Income Home Energy Assistance Program that can help with your bills.

Even if you’re not able to work out a payment plan for your past-due bills, talking to your landlord and creditors can mitigate the damage. For example, if you still can’t afford your rent, you and your landlord might be able to agree on a move-out date so you can avoid an eviction on your credit report.

Of course, if you have any way to earn extra money by doing odd jobs, working extra shifts or selling valuables, now is the time to do it.

You can also go to benefit.gov to learn about what government programs you may qualify for, but keep in mind that your application could take several weeks to process and even longer to get benefits.

Ultimately, you need to prepare yourself for the worst-case scenario. Maybe that means temporarily moving in with family or into a shelter, or surrendering your car and relying on public transportation.

But until you ask for help you won’t know what resources are available. While there’s no easy fix for this situation, you do have options — but the longer you wait, the fewer you’ll have.

Robin Hartill is a senior editor at The Penny Hoarder and the voice behind Dear Penny. Send your questions about debt to [email protected]

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